About Kris
Originally from South Carolina, I spent almost 25 years in the United States Army, serving all over the world in multiple positions.
I spent most of my life sprinting from one task to the next and paid little attention to where I was or how I was feeling. Although I dedicated my life to service, I failed to realize I couldn’t truly be there for others if I wasn’t there for myself first.
It wasn’t until after my divorce that I finally found the space to understand my full self and my core desires.
I am a heterosexual, cis-gender male with an open mind and a passion for kink. I demonstrate love through acts of service and feel loved when I am heard and seen.
I believe everyone deserves to be their true selves—free from shame and rich in their diversity—which is why I trained with the Somatica® Institute to become a sex and relationship coach.
Areas Of Expertise
De-shamifying Sex
My mission is to de-shamify stigmas surrounding sex and pleasure, creating a space where open dialogue, curiosity, and exploration are celebrated. By challenging societal norms and embracing a sex-positive approach, I empower individuals to reclaim their erotic authenticity and embrace their unique desires and expressions of intimacy.
Building Resiliency
We all have stressors in our life and need tools to help identify and manage triggers, reset our bodies back to neutral, and move forward with life’s challenges. Resiliency helps us care for ourselves in difficult times and recharge so we can continue to be there for others. I work with clients to explore resiliency techniques and find what works best for them.
Dating and Relationships
Relationships aren’t always easy. Through discussions and tools focused on boundaries, consent, relationship repair, and disinhibition, I work with clients to find a dating and relationship strategy that works for them.
Identifying your Core Desires
Identifying turn-ons sounds simple, but acknowledging them might not be enough to achieve the sex we want and deserve. Through the use of tools and practices, I help individuals understand what turns them on and why, and identify what they want to feel during sex to help them enjoy greater pleasure and intimacy.